How would you feel if your husband did this?

I decided it's time for me to go back to work I'm disabled but I really want to go try to work when I work I make very good money and right now my income is only $1700 a month when I work my income doubles anyway my man has did a 2 day no call no show I'm furious in the first place he quit his job last year and didn't work for 6 months and he now only works part time so we've been struggling I am pretty fed up I tried to convince him into getting a warehouse job or something he says he can't do it it's too strenuous that's what I do and I make excellent money he wont go back to school he seems like a bum and I don't think I want to be with someone who doesn't have goals or who isn't ambitious I have children I need money to feel secure am I being a ***** for wanting a man that works my situation was temporary my job is waiting for me I didn't do this to be lazy like it seems he is.