What is your opinion on this? am i just being insecure?

i am upset because my boyfriend doesnt really make me feel special, he hasnt really proved he loves me and cares about me. he says alot of the right things but he doesnt really put his words into actions. we have been together for 3 months and over and over he says he loves me and wants to be with me forever.. he took me to meet his family, he says im beautiful, and wonderful things like that but what ****s everything up is that he always wants me to go clubbing with him or go to bars with him and im not into that stuff, he will never say lets go to a movie or go to dinner and it boggles my mind! is it secretly because he still wants to be single? does he in fact love me? i just really need a sign! 3 days ago i had told him prove to me you care and love me and ill get back with you and he swore up and down ima show you i promise. and i said you know what forget i never want to speak to you again! and now i find out he is at a club with his friends.... this is not caring right? or do you think he was just mad and wanted revenge or something please someone give me advice! i love him so much and all i wanted was for him to prove he loves me.... is there any hope in saving our relationship?